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September 06, 2005

My friends are nerds... and engaged.

I have gone to one wedding so far for my friends. I missed Jolene and Chris' last year, but I think that number will soon jump. Everyday I learn of more and more people getting engaged. None of them are even beyond the age of 23! What is happening? I didn't think I was already at the age of marriage!

Also, what is with the trend of engagement websites by people who have little to no previous html experience? So far there are only two websites I found by my friends. "Engagement at the Beach" and "She Said Yes."

Also, everyone is asking at the beach. If anyone is listening out there, that's too cheesy for me, and photos of me at the beach are always unattractive. Unless we're talking Hawaii. ;-)

By the way, I am not jealous. Surprised, mostly. Everyone knows I'm getting married when I am ready to be married. I'm not getting married young, on a whim or because it seems like great idea at the time, and then getting divorced afterwards. When I get married, it's going to be well thought out and stable. There's no reason to be in a difficult marriage. I learned from my parents a long time ago that a marriage shouldn't be hard.

And, Stacee is so designing my engagement page, because every girl deserves a nice, classy engagement website.

I'm a nerd too, just for clarification...

I am nerdier than 83% of all people. Are you nerdier? Click here to find out!

Posted by Stacy on September 6, 2005 03:29 PM | Filed In: Friends

Comments

Yup - same here about everyone getting married when you're 23. Spent this entire summer attending (4) various weddings. So, according to national averages, the divorces should start kickin' in at about 10 years from now with half of my friends. I guess I'll just enjoy the happiness while it lasts.

Posted by Ian at September 6, 2005 04:28 PM 

seriously. i feel like everyone our age is married, has kids, or is married with kids. kids, not babies. kids meaning they had babies when they were much younger.

and ugly engagement sites because they're too excited. but mostly because weddings are expensive so they can't afford a web designer?

i'd probably blog about my engagement, but i can't see a website for it, other than like having a guestbook and wishlist thing - what's it called when it's for a wedding? i'll do yours though :) !

oh, i just remember that i actually saw a nice one. the bride was a graphic designer. the groom was a programmer. her name started with an E and his with a M i think. they had this really nice logo where the letters intertwined. i wish i remembered what the url was.

Posted by stacee at September 6, 2005 08:31 PM 

Okay, but are you a geek or a dork?

Posted by J.D. at September 7, 2005 09:19 AM 

note to self: keep women+me away from beach

PS you should install the gravatar.com plugin ;)

Posted by wayne at September 7, 2005 12:05 PM 

J.D. - I am 73 % Nerd, 69% Geek, 39% Dork

"A Nerd is someone who is passionate about learning/being smart/academia. A Geek is someone who is passionate about some particular area or subject, often an obscure or difficult one. A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions. You scored better than half in Nerd and Geek, earning you the title of: Modern, Cool Nerd."

"Nerds didn't use to be cool, but in the 90's that all changed. It used to be that, if you were a computer expert, you had to wear plaid or a pocket protector or suspenders or something that announced to the world that you couldn't quite fit in. Not anymore. Now, the intelligent and geeky have eked out for themselves a modicum of respect at the very least, and 'geek is chic.' The Modern, Cool Nerd is intelligent, knowledgable and always the person to call in a crisis (needing computer advice/an arcane bit of trivia knowledge). They are the one you want as your lifeline in Who Wants to Be a Millionaire (or the one up there, winning the million bucks)!"

Posted by Stacy at September 7, 2005 02:54 PM 

dictionary.com says a dork is "a dull stupid fatuous person." harsh!

Posted by jason at September 7, 2005 05:41 PM 

I got your nerdscore beat

Posted by Paul Scott at September 8, 2005 09:40 AM 

Hey Stacy~

I'm getting married in March '06. I am 27. This is my first (AND ONLY) marriage. Don't rush into marriage- you're right- get married when YOU'RE ready!
Steven and I got engaged on March 5, 2005 and are planning our wedding for 53 weeks later. Since our engagement, I know at least 5 couples who have gotten engaged... and all 5 will be married before we are (and most have been dating less time than us).
Anyway, just wanted to throw my three cents out there!

l8r,

stef

Posted by stef at September 8, 2005 06:11 PM 

Wow. I know a lot of unmarried 30pluses. 0_o

Posted by Esther at September 8, 2005 07:52 PM 

OMG, you've put into words everything i am feeling. saturday is my friend anne's wedding. she is 23. she is getting married at the beach. she has a website for her wedding where you can actually type in your "guest number" and rsvp. insane. insane i tell you. honestly, i cant wait to get married... hmph.

Posted by Rowena at September 9, 2005 12:38 AM 

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